LIFE IS A GARDEN…

 Life is a garden.

One to be created and nurtured and enjoyed and, like all gardens, it’s sometimes work and effort too, but if you cannot bring yourself to love the work, you’ll never truly love       the garden.

GJB

FEAR

 Fear can be the companion or the driver; the choice will be yours.  

You are the architect of fear.

GJB

LIFE GOALS

 "When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down "Happy". They told me I didn't understand the assignment, and I told them they didn't understand life." Through this remark, he suggested that happiness, not job titles or wealth, should be the ultimate goal.  

John Lennon

AND MAGIC

Some women are made of steal, stone, tears, dust, bones, scars, books, music, rainfall, stardust, moonlight, flowers, daydreams and wild adventures…

J.M.

VALENTINE ♥️

 

DO THIS

 https://www.threads.com/@detoxwithmadison/post/DUvHDbKkj0q?xmt=AQF0O5nGAKOksEGPy531yNjTWOVzYeY4woJEmtXKDgCxzAWPHyLG3tno4cWnGKhFeWIBKY8&slof=1

I AM NOT

 If you think what I said to you is mean… to you I say:

I am not being mean to you, I am just not actively making you comfortable.

MY LIFE PLAN

 "In order to be irreplaceable 

one must always be different."   

Coco Chanel

SLEEP OVER

LIKE MINDED

 Last week we went to a ‘Bourbon Share’ event. Lots of like minded people, sharing dinner and their collection hobby. The group is comprised of  a wide variety of folks from lots of different walks of life. 

It’s not a drinking party. It’s a sip and share event. There can be as many as 100 plus bottles there. But these collectors aren’t interested in emptying the bottles. They are there to share the experience. Most bring their own tiny glen-cairn glass, and literally they only sip from the ounce they pour. 

They share bottles, wisdom and stories. They eat from a wide variety of great food and they mingle with everyone who attends. 

I have to say, it is really a great adult event. 

I am not a bourbon drinker but I do enjoy attending. The ratio of women to men is small, but it’s still a nice mix. Lots of different career paths and lifestyles. It’s respectful and lighthearted. 

Last weeks event gave me the opportunity to meet Cookie. She isn’t a bourbon drinker either, but I was delighted to see that she also brought her crocheting project with her. 

So as the ladies watched the bourbon connoisseurs, shared their passion and wisdom, we shared current projects, needlework techniques and great conversation. 

It was a very nice evening.

WEAR IT OUT

"Life is like a ten speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use."

- Charles Schulz

MUSEUM

 When you take a Mayberry … 

to the Museum!

BE YOU, FOR EVERYONE ELSE

 

WHY FAIL

 

CHOICE

 I watched something on social today, with advice from a 76 year old woman. She shared her secret to life. The social spin was to just “keep on going”. But listening to the vibrant woman speak, she told of her true life choice. She sees her life as beautiful and blessed. 

We all have a choice every day, to see your life as happy, beautiful and blessed or to see each day as something less and verging on misery. 

I agree with the 76 year old, it’s my choice every day. And I see my life as beautiful. I know I am so blessed. And I hope my happy attitude reflects on all those in my life. 

GARLIC

 

ACTIONS

 

1. Dreams are only wasted
2.  if they’re not linked to action.

Words without actions

mean nothing.

If you want it

show the action.

DEAR FEBRUARY

 Good Morning 

The snow isn’t pretty anymore. 

Love, Us

HURKLE-DURKLING

 The Scottish have a word 

for staying in bed, 

after it’s time to get up. 

It’s Hurkle-Durkling,

Sounds cozy and good to me!

HAPPY FEBRUARY 2026

 

https://actionforhappiness.org/calendar

REINVENTING YOU

 

"I pretended to be somebody I wanted to be until finally I became that person. Or he became me."

- Cary Grant

INTENTIONAL LIVING

Intentional living means understanding your fundamental beliefs and values, and then actively living your life in line with those values.

General Core Beliefs
These are foundational, often unconscious, views that shape an individual's worldview:

• Safety: The world is safe or dangerous.
• Appreciation: The world is enticing or dull.
• Nature: The world is alive or mechanistic.
• Control: Belief in an internal or external locus of control regarding one’s destiny. 

Positive Core Beliefs About Self

• Worthiness: I am deserving of love, respect, and happiness.
• Capability: I am capable of overcoming challenges and adapting to change.
• Growth Mindset: I can learn, grow, and improve through effort.
• Accountability: I am responsible for my actions, choices, and my 200% accountability for my own life.
• Self-Compassion: I treat myself with kindness and understanding.

Positive Core Beliefs About Others & World

• Compassion/Kindness: Others deserve empathy, and kindness should guide actions.
• Integrity/Honesty: Being honest, trustworthy, and authentic in all dealings.
• Respect/Equality: Every person deserves dignity, and I respect the diversity of others.
• Forgiveness: Letting go of grudges allows for peace and progress.
• Generosity/Altruism:Contributing to the well-being of others.
• Optimism: Believing in a better future and focusing on solutions.

Core Beliefs for Personal Fulfillment

• Purpose: Living with intention and aligning actions with values.
• Resilience: Seeing obstacles as opportunities for learning.
• Gratitude: Appreciating what I have and focusing on the positive.
• Courage: Taking bold steps and acting despite fear.
• Inner Peace: Prioritizing mental tranquility and being present. 

Core Values List

Authenticity, Achievement, Adventure, Authority, Autonomy, Balance, Beauty, Boldness, Compassion, Challenge, Citizenship, Community, Competency, Contribution, Creativity, Curiosity, Determination, Fairness, Faith, Fame, Friendships, Fun, Growth, Happiness, Honesty, Humor, Influence, Inner Harmony, Justice, Kindness, Knowledge, Leadership, Learning, Love, Loyalty, Meaningful Work, Openness, Optimism, Peace, Pleasure, Poise, Popularity, Recognition, Religion, Reputation, Respect, Responsibility, Security, Self-Respect, Service, Spirituality, Stability, Success, Status, Trustworthiness, Wealth, Wisdom

AGE

 

“Aging is an extraordinary process whereby you become the person that you always should have been.”

– DAVID BOWIE

I CONCUR!!!

ROCK THE HIVE

 

PETRICHOR

 PETRICHOR: The smell that fills the air after a fresh rain. 

INNER GROWTH

“Real growth is about becoming more of who you already are.”

– LORI GOTTLIEB

In my forties I undertook the project of finding myself.  It all started when my children asked what my favorite ice cream flavor was, and I didn’t know. I looked at my life and realized somewhere along the way I had lost who I was. It wasn’t really about ice cream, but knowing me as an individual.

Learning to become you is tough. You have to stop listening to everything around you and focus on the person within. 

I found the things about me that had I loved, and I found gigantic wholes in myself that I had to reconstruct. 

Finding me was the hardest project I ever did. But by far one of the most rewarding. 

I also learned that you can reinvent you into a far better version of you. Becoming someone that you not only like, but whom you truly love. After all, you are the only person you have to wake up with every morning of your life. 

By giving yourself the right to keep evolving, you will learn to love the life you have.

I learned to really like myself, then I learned to love who I am. It was a game of life changer for me.

And… Rocky Road, the kind with marshmallow swirls, not the little marshmallows. This is my favorite ice cream. Followed closely by butter pecan!

KEEP GOING

 "Maybe the bravest thing we can do 

is keep existing, 

keep creating, 

even when the outcome 

is uncertain."

PD

But... I never again want to merely exist. Life is far too short. Existing is not truly living. There is no effort in existing. And I for  one want to put all my effort into living. Being a better version of me today than I was yesterday. Being kind and loving to those in my life, not just those in my inner circle. 

Be Brave... Live Well! 

YOOHOO?

 I tried my first YooHoo today. 

And to my surprise it tasted just like chocolate milk!

I love chocolate milk, even though I rarely drink it.

Then I looked at the amount of added sugar...

and I poured it right out. 

Now I know! WooHoo...I mean YooHoo!

MOVE

"If your world doesn't allow you to dream, move to one where you can."

- Billy Idol I’m a firm believer in the knowledge that you don’t have to live where you were planted.  It’s a big world… LET’S GO! am

DEFAULT STATE

 Happiness is the default state. It’s what is there when you remove the sense that something is missing in life.

N R

FAST FOOD

I read this article this morning:

America’s Favorite Fast Food Restaurants by State

https://www.visualcapitalist.com/mapped-each-states-favorite-fast-food-restaurant/?ck_subscriber_id=3056517229&utm_source=convertkit&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=For+a+happier+relationship%2C+order+takeout+-+20322411

And I was delighted to find that YES I am a product of my environment. 

If you know me at all, you know that as an Arizona native, there is not much I wouldn’t to for a ‘Jack in the Box’ taco. I will HAPPILY drive two plus hours just to get one… or an entire bag of them!

But last nights experience taught me that my current location, here in Kentucky, is also a dead ringer… 

We don’t get take out pizza very often, but Pappa John’s is my go to (easy app, customizable options, super thin crust and it’s close to my home).

 Last night was Friday night, and the wait for my pizza order was longer than usual. As I pulled up to the pizza hub, it was PACKED! This isn’t a shop where you can enjoy your pizza at a table, it’s strictly a pick it up and go type place. So upon arriving I was shocked to see over a dozen cars parked everywhere. 

The app showed me that my order was still being prepared, so I parked by the sports store behind the pizza place and watched the show… The amount of cars in line for pick up stretched into the alley. The Smart Car delivery driver truly looked like an animated wind up toy darting in and out at the speed of light. I guess I had never picked up a pizza order there at 6pm on a Friday night before, but it was very entertaining. And showed me that, YES, Papa John’s Pizza is a Kentucky favorite. (And yes, my thin crust pizza was perfectly yummy!)

SHOWER UPGRADE

 This is awesome! I totally recommend this purchase!

And it was easy to install!!

YEARS END SURPRISE

 

We were invited to celebrate the marriage proposal of dear friends New Years Eve. It was an awesome way to end 2025 and start 2026! 

ULTIMATE TRUTH

“A purpose of human life, 

no matter who is 

controlling it, 

is to love 

whoever is around 

to be loved.”

– KURT VONNEGUT

I believe this to be the ultimate truth.   ♥️

LIVE BETTER, HEALTHIER, LONGER

 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IrVHB0Hp3F0%3Futm_source%3Djoin1440&utm_medium=email&user_id=66c4bf685d78644b3aa504c9

My take aways:

*Don’t worry alone. Share by talking to others.

Stress can cause physical issues (Fight or Flight). Sharing with someone; speaking with a friend or confidant, can help lower our stress and loneliness. Thus, helping lower our stress levels and bolstering our relationship level.

 *Relationships = Better, Healthier, Longer Lives

Being in contact with others, physically (touching - like hand holding) as well as talking, makes us feel safer. Which causes less stress. Bringing us a better, healthier, longer life.

2026 Night Sky

 Celestial Calendar

http://www.seasky.org/astronomy/astronomy-calendar-2026.html?ck_subscriber_id=3056517229&utm_source=convertkit&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=2026%20events%20to%20add%20to%20your%20calendar%20-%2020237381

A HAPPIER JANUARY

 https://actionforhappiness.org/calendar

NEW YEAR

 "Don’t live the same year 75 times and call it a life."

Live every day to the fullest.

Welcome the new; experience the things that take you out of your comfort zone. 

Speak from your heart and know that yours is a life worth living out loud.

Find the magic every day. 

Show your happy to everyone!

And never be afraid to invest in you! 

Let’s make 2026 

Amazing!

WONDER

 

“Wondering leads to wonder.”

– CARLOS WHITTAKER

I’m ready to let one lead me to the other!!!

THE MUG

 This came from Mrs. Claus… it reminds me of my Emmaly. ♥️

MERRY CHRISTMAS

 

THE COOKIES ARE OUT…

 

FOG

 This morning there was fog....the thick kind that makes it so you can't see down the road. It makes the world a bit quieter and it is almost like snow...kind of. 

I love that we have fog today and the skies are gray... since we aren't getting snow for Christmas, I am happy with FOG.

TRACKING THE SLEIGH

 https://www.noradsanta.org/en/map

MAY YOU NEVER BE TOO OLD

 To listen for sleigh bells on Christmas Eve 

THE IMPORTANT PARTS

 

“What’s important to us remains the same. It’s that inside stuff: the need for love and acceptance, and getting to know yourself and your place in the world.”

– JUDY BLUME

SIMPLE BEAUTY