Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Quote Of The Day

"Life is so distracting.
Find your personal escape 
unplug from the world, 
and reconnect with who you are."

Susan Devita~ 
swims a mile every day
to disconnect with the world
and find herself.

Quote Of The Day

"Stay with the things you love to do" 
J Mossman

...she told me to "Live life, do the things you love to do, enjoy your life, your true love [your angel] will come"

"It may take 24 years, but it will come, enjoy the journey". 

I would like to go on a European Cruse with this beautiful woman!!

UNTIL





Quote Of The Day

When you find that one
you would move heaven, earth
and time itself for.....
do everything in your 
world to hold on to her.
This is what living is about.
Do Not Merely Exist....

LIVE!!! 

Sunday, August 25, 2013

Bountiful Sun Set


Tonight's'Sunset In Bountiful.

Handy Indeed

Today Cookie replaced the handle arm,
handle, the flush valve and flapper!
She is my HERO!!

I LOVE SALAD!!!




Schedule/Solution

A friend and I were messaging the other day.
He could tell that I was down and that something was wrong.
I said I was in need of attention.
He asked " How can I help?" and "What's your schedule?"
I replied "I have just about every afternoon and evening free."
"That's the problem and the schedule!"

I need to fill my time!!

Cousins










Heaven

Somewhere Only We Know

TIME AFTER TIME


Every Time

True Colors




ALWAYS BABE ALWAYS

Mama's Broken Heart


Saturday, August 24, 2013

Chocolate Covered Fruit


You can get it at  Walmart!
Blueberries, Apricots,
Strawberries and Cherries

Breakfast

Biscuits, Gravy, Bacon and Scrambled Egg
Even though my world is so wrong at the moment
I still make the best gravy ever!
and no I didn't burn the bacon

Friday, August 23, 2013

Aaron Bernhardt

This is my sons best friend throughout school.
He joined the Navy right out of high school and
just graduated from Nuclear Power School!
Proud moment for his family.
Congrats to Aaron & Mom and Dad!!!


Ashton Kutcher Acceptance Speech - Teen Choice Awards 2013



BY FAR 
THE BEST ACCEPTANCE SPEECH
 I HAVE EVER HEARD!

Desiderata


“Go placidly amidst the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its shams, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.”
Desiderata (Latin: “desired things”), is a 1927 poem by American writer Max Ehrmann (1872–1945).

Word Of The Day

SLAINTE   Gaelic for 'health'


Strawberries

Strawberry Fields Forever


Brownies





We never did make the brownies
but I sure think she is delightful!!!
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Thursday, August 22, 2013

Today's Advice

I was speaking to a sweet man in his eighties today. He said I will give you a piece of advice....
"Don't Wait To Move, 
if you know where you want to be just go, 
don't wait. 
Enjoy life while you are living it!"

Bucket List Item



Cool Stuff


Resiliency


Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats, or even significant sources of stress – such as family and relationship problems, serious health problems, or workplace and financial stressors. It means bouncing back from difficult experiences.
Research tells us that resiliency is ordinary, not extraordinary. Look around to your friends, family, and co-workers. You will see examples of others bouncing back from adversity.
Emotional pain and sadness are common to people who suffer adversity and it is common to experience intense emotions on the road to resilience. Resilience is not something we are born with. The good news is we can learn to be resilient. We can all learn the behaviors, thoughts and actions to be resilient.

Excellence Award


I had no idea I had been nominated. 
I was shocked, flattered and humbled. 
My peers, aa, coaches, trainers, and 
team leaders are the best. 
I love who I work with! 
I truly don't feel antiquate for the award. 
Thank you! 

Claude Debussy



http://www.theguardian.com/technology/2013/aug/22/claude-debussy-google-doodle


Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Panic Attack

I got a call from the school nurse Friday. My Cookie was hyperventilating and I needed to go get her.
This isn't normal for my daughter, but it had been a really really rough day for her. She had a presentation in her English Honors class. She even had to get dresses up to present the speech.
She was prepared for the event, the speech was great, she knew it by heart. She had taken a very nice outfit to change into for the presentation as well. The day was going great, she went to change, and in the process lost her cell phone. She reported it missing, went and gave her speech, then went back to speak with the campus officer. On her way to talk to him, she wasn't feeling so great. He took her right to the nurses office. That's when I got the call. Mark made it to the school before I did, he called and said "Mom she doesn't look right" I asked him to bring his sister home, I would meet them there.
She was doing better by the time we made it home. I put her to bed and within an hour she was fine.

I figured, stress. Big things happened that day, stressful things. Things outside her comfort zone.
She was fine over the weekend. We didn't do anything wild or crazy. All was well.

Today 9:14am, the school nurse calls, Meg is hyperventilating again. She needs to be picked up.
9:38 I am on the 101 freeway when the next call from the nurse comes in. She didn't want me to be alarmed  when I pulled to the school, but she had called the paramedics. Cookie was not doing well.

I followed the fire truck the last mile to the school. I entered the nurses office right behind the med team. My baby was on a cot, stiff, unresponsive, her eyes were foggy, kind of glazed. Her breathing was super shallow and rapid. Her arms and hands were cramped and blue. The nurse said Cookie had stopped breathing completely twice. That's when she called 911.
The paramedics gave her oxygen, and hooked her up to all their equipment. I touched her face, her hair, talked softly to her. Within a few minutes she was calming down. Within 15 more she was coherent and able to talk. Her vitals were good. There was no rhyme or reason for this one. Nothing happened out of the ordinary to cause it. The paramedics said they didn't see the need for the ER, so I took her home.

I made an appointment and had her into the DR within a few hours (after holding her on the sofa while she napped). We didn't get to see our primary doctor, but an associate. He took her vitals and gave her a breathing test. She was fine. No there is no history of breathing problem, no she isn't on meds of any kind. No school drama. So he wanted blood work, a chest X-ray and a follow up with a lung specialist.

Well.....Cookie has this FEAR of needles. So short of another panic attack, we said no thank you to the blood work. She came apart when they did the X-ray and I veto the specialist. There is no indication that there is any problem with her lungs.

So we went home. We talked about eating better, getting more sleep, and working through panic attacks. We worked on some helpful  breathing and calming techniques. Tomorrow I will go get her some calming oils, and we will  keep working on being low stress.

I don't want to relive today.

(then my garage door broke....deep breaths....calm thoughts....ZEN)



BABE

"Babe" =  emotional / verbal / text hug MD

Word Of The Day

EMBELLISH 

To make something more beautiful by the addition of features

  .o0O0o.o0O0o.o0O0o.o0O0o.o0O0o.o0O0o.o0O0o.o0O0o.

Monday, August 19, 2013

I am grateful for the lessons my parents taught me.
I hope that my children far surpass me in their generation! 


Monsoon


Wicked Weather

Rain South of The Valley

Friday, August 16, 2013

TWITTERPATED




1. to be enamored with someone/something.
2. the flighty feeling you get when you think about/see the object of your affection.
3. romantically excited
4. the ever increasing acceleration of heartbeat and body temperature as a result of being engulfed amidst the exhilaration and joy of being'having a romantic entity in someone's like. 

When he smiled at her, the rush of warn, fuzzy, excited sensations that filled her, made her realize she was completely twitterpated with this man. 

Should be experienced at least once in every person's life.


(Cookie listened to this clip as I was blogging it and she asked "Is he talking about death?" I said "No, about being in love." she said "Oh same thing right!")

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

SHE WONT BE LONELY LONG


Somethin’ bout the way she’s wearin’
Her dress a little tighter 
Somethin’ bout the way she’s starin’
She’s lookin to start a fire 
Somethin’ bout the way she’s dancin’
And drinkin’ chilled Patron 
If she’s lonely now
She won’t be lonely long 

Heaven help the fool who did her wrong 
It’s too late, too bad, she’s too far gone 
He should’ve thought of that
Before he left her all alone 
If she’s lonely now
She won’t be lonely long 

Somethin’ bout the way she’s blushin’
You can tell she isn’t sure 
Let you know she’s up to somethin’
She’s never done before 
Tonight she wants to hold a stranger
But not the one at home 
If she’s lonely now
She won’t be lonely long 

Heaven help the fool who did her wrong 
It’s too late, too bad, she’s too far gone 
He should’ve thought of that
Before he left her all alone 
If she’s lonely now
She won’t be lonely long 

If I had a woman like that 
Man I’d let her know 
I’d hold her tight 
I’d hold her close 
Do anythin’, do everythin’ to let her know 
She’d never ever be alone 

Heaven help the fool who did her wrong 
It’s too late, too bad, she’s too far gone 
He should’ve thought of that
Before he left her all alone 
If she’s lonely now
Lord if she’s lonely now 
If she’s lonely now
She won’t be lonely long

MIRRORS

Chu Ching!!!!



Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Quote of The Day

To me being spiritual is less about learning something new and more about remembering what I have always known. Being spiritual is a process of stripping down to what is authentic for me, for my life. Getting spiritually naked is about having the courage to be radically open about the truth of who we are with no exceptions and no apologies, to reveal ourselves without judgment or shame.

Do You Know Who You Are? By MEGGAN WATTERSON



HAPPY BIRTHDAY

IT'S HIS 19th BIRTHDAY!!!

Monday, August 12, 2013

Stepping Stones


Funny thing these children of ours. 
They seem to get older and believe wiser, 
however still basically are just 
holding their breath in tantrum mode 
till they get their way.  
MD
like a broken heart

Quote of The Day

NO DISTANCE OF PLACE 
OR LAPS OF TIME
CAN LESSEN THE FRIENDSHIP
OF THOSE WHO ARE
THOROUGHLY PERSUADED
OF EACH OTHERS WORTH.
ROBERT SOUTHEY



Saturday, August 10, 2013

KNOW HOW TO FIND YOUR WAY HOME










N37.75227 W86.81360

Meditation

30 Days with One-Moment Meditation® By Martin Boroson  


Read more: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Transform-Stress-in-30-Days-with-One-Moment-Meditation/3#ixzz2bbrQ4ByL
FEELING GOOD IS CONTAGIOUS 

Lunch At Work



Chicken Marsala 
Manicotti
Lasagna
It's nice to be treated to lunch once in a while.