Saturday, May 31, 2014
Thursday, May 29, 2014
ARROW
An arrow can only be
shot
by pulling it backward.
When life is dragging you
back with difficulties,
it means it’s going to launch you
into something great.
So just focus, and keep
aiming.
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
The People Who Love Their Lives Are Doing Things Differently
Surprise, surprise… happy people live their lives differently.
They don’t have different lives. They just do a better job at living them than
those who are unhappy.
Happiness is the result of subjective interpretation of
perception. Of course, what we perceive isn’t always done so by choice — life
does throw things our way.
However, most of the time, we find ourselves in the situations
we are in because of actions we took and decisions we made. It’s the way that
you live your life that largely decides whether or not you will live happily.
They don’t bother trying to make others like them — mainly because
they don’t care if they’re liked.
They like themselves and they are the only people they ever
answer to. You could like them. You could hate them. You could pay them no mind
whatsoever — doesn’t make a difference to them.
They do what they do because they decided to do it. They aren’t
trying to gain your approval or acceptance. They don’t want to be part of your
team — they’re a team of their own. They live their lives the way they see fit
and if you like them for it, great. If not… then so be it.
They do things because they want to do them, not because they
believe they have to do them.
They don’t believe they have to do anything. Other than pay
taxes and die of course — everything else is a decision followed by deliberate
action. If they are doing something, going somewhere, participating in
something, it’s because that is exactly what it is that they want to be doing.
No one coerced them or tricked them into doing it because they
value their opinion above everyone else’s. They do what they believe is right
and don’t bother to ask for permission — they just do it.
They love their friends but don’t rely on them.
Friends are tricky because they aren’t really yours, are they?
You don’t own them. They are their own people who have their own wants and
needs — people who will always put themselves ahead of you and your goals.
Friends are great to have, but relying on them too heavily will leave you
disappointed.
Those who live happy lives have very close friends, but they
keep their independence in order to avoid those moments. It’s the lack of
independence and over-reliance that often comes to ruin friendships — all
relationships for that matter.
When you ask them what they do, they don’t give you a job title.
They tell you about the things they are doing with their lives —
the places they have visited and are planning on visiting. The projects they
are starting or part of. The problems they are working towards solving and the
communities they are working with to get those problems solved.
When you ask them what they do, they respond with what they do
in their lives, not what work they do in order to pay for the lives they want
to one day be living. The real trick is that these individuals know better than
to wait to live the lives they want to live. You live life whether you accept
or ignore the fact, how you live it in the moment determines how happy you are.
When you ask them where they live, they say, “At the moment…”
Happy people tend to move around a bit. Maybe it’s because
traveling does the soul good. Maybe it’s because the stagnancy of staying in
one place their whole lives bores them.
Maybe it’s because they love meeting new people and having new
experiences. Maybe it’s because they haven’t found the right place to settle
down just yet. You see, these individuals see the world as their home — no
single country or city. If you ask them where they live, then they’d answer
“earth” if they wouldn’t come off sounding highfalutin.
They have their own philosophies, their own religion they created
and live by.
You don’t need a book to tell you how you ought to live your
life. You can live your life by whatever philosophy you wish — as long as you
found truths that satisfy you. They have a strong grasp of right and wrong and
are their own judges.
They embrace their impermanence.
They know they’re only mortal — having this knowledge and
accepting it fuels their every step. You will too. Why? Because it is
inevitable. There is no way of avoiding it, only dealing with the fact.
The happiest of people don’t fear death. They don’t do their
best to avoid it. They see it as the inevitability that it is in and live their
lives by their terms. They may not be able to control death, but they know they
sure as hell can control their own personal lives.
They see the world as their playhouse and their mind as the
conductor.
They don’t believe there is a single way that the world is — a
single reality that exists. Instead, they believe themselves to be the
originators of their reality.
They believe they have full control over how they interpret what
they perceive. They see the world the way they choose to see it because they
understand the power such a skill has. We all live in a reality of our own
construction. Some of us just construct our realities better than others.
They live in the moment, but dream in the future.
Happy people have hopes, dreams and goals. They have wants and
aspirations, but they don’t allow themselves to get caught up and lost in them.
There isn’t so much a time and place for dreaming as there is a maximum
allotted amount recommended.
You can’t live life doing nothing more than looking towards the
future because you’ll miss the only time that things actually matter or exist:
the present. The present, the immediate moment is the only moment that you can
actually live in. The rest is only an illusion.
They don’t bother changing others, but instead learn how to deal
with them appropriately.
Devoting your energy to changing other people is a waste of it.
People do change, but they only do so on their own accord. They have to decide
to change themselves and that only happens in time — you can’t push and force
because it doesn’t work.
On the contrary, it often does the opposite of what is intended.
Instead of wasting time and energy trying to do the impossible, why not do the
next best thing? Learn to deal with people as they are in order to get the
result you desire. If you can’t change them, then guide them to do as you wish.
Otherwise, let them go!
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Live Like You Were Dying
He said: "I was in my early forties,
"With a
lot of life before me,
"An' a
moment came that stopped me on a dime.
"I spent
most of the next days,
"Looking
at the x-rays,
"An'
talking 'bout the options an' talkin’ ‘bout sweet time."
I asked him
when it sank in,
That this
might really be the real end?
How’s it hit
you when you get that kind of news?
Man whatcha
do?
An' he said:
"I went sky diving, I went rocky mountain climbing,
"I went
two point seven seconds on a bull named Fu Man Chu.
"And I
loved deeper and I spoke sweeter,
"And I
gave forgiveness I'd been denying."
An' he said:
"Some day, I hope you get the chance,
"To live
like you were dyin'."
He said
"I was finally the husband,
"That
most the time I wasn’t.
"An' I
became a friend a friend would like to have.
"And all
of a sudden goin' fishin’,
"Wasn’t
such an imposition,
"And I
went three times that year I lost my Dad.
"Well, I
finally read the Good Book,
"And I
took a good long hard look,
"At what
I'd do if I could do it all again,
"And
then:
"I went
sky diving, I went rocky mountain climbing,
"I went
two point seven seconds on a bull named Fu Man Chu.
"And I
loved deeper and I spoke sweeter,
"And I
gave forgiveness I'd been denying."
An' he said:
"Some day, I hope you get the chance,
"To live
like you were dyin'."
Like tomorrow
was a gift,
And you got
eternity,
To think about
what you’d do with it.
An' what did
you do with it?
An' what can I
do with it?
An' what would
I do with it?
"Sky
diving, I went rocky mountain climbing,
"I went
two point seven seconds on a bull named Fu Man Chu.
"And then
I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter,
"And I
watched Blue Eagle as it was flyin'."
An' he said:
"Some day, I hope you get the chance,
"To live
like you were dyin'."
"To live
like you were dyin'."
"To live
like you were dyin'."
"To live
like you were dyin'."
"To live
like you were dyin'."
WHEN LOVE TAKES YOU IN
Steven Curtis Chapman - When Love Takes You In by StevenCurtisChapman-Official
I know you've heard the stories
But they all sound too good to be true
You've heard about a place called home
But there doesn't seem to be one for you
So one more night you cry yourself to sleep
And drift off to a distant dream
But they all sound too good to be true
You've heard about a place called home
But there doesn't seem to be one for you
So one more night you cry yourself to sleep
And drift off to a distant dream
Where love takes you in and everything changes
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
When love takes you home and says you belong here
The loneliness ends and a new life begins
When love takes you in
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
When love takes you home and says you belong here
The loneliness ends and a new life begins
When love takes you in
And somewhere while you're sleeping
Someone else is dreaming too
Counting down the days until
They hold you close and say I love you
And like the rain that falls into the sea
In a moment what has been is lost in what will be
Someone else is dreaming too
Counting down the days until
They hold you close and say I love you
And like the rain that falls into the sea
In a moment what has been is lost in what will be
When love takes you in everything changes
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
And this love will never let you go
There is nothing that could ever
Cause this love to lose its hold
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
And this love will never let you go
There is nothing that could ever
Cause this love to lose its hold
When love takes you in everything changes
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
When love takes you home and says you belong here
The loneliness ends and a new life begins
When love takes you in it takes you in for good
When love takes you in
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
When love takes you home and says you belong here
The loneliness ends and a new life begins
When love takes you in it takes you in for good
When love takes you in
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